French Greetings: Social Etiquette and Formality Guide

Updated on 2024-11-30

Formal Greetings

Bonjour Monsieur/Madame/Mademoiselle

  • Used in professional settings
  • Shows respect to strangers
  • Example: "Bonjour Madame la Directrice" (Good morning, Director)

Common Formal Combinations

  1. "Bonjour Monsieur, comment allez-vous?"

    • Good morning Sir, how are you?
    • Used with older people or in business
  2. "Bonsoir Madame, je vous en prie"

    • Good evening Ma'am, after you
    • Perfect for formal evening events

Informal Greetings

Salut - Hi

  • Used among friends and family
  • Casual and friendly
  • Example: "Salut, ça va?" (Hi, how's it going?)

Common Informal Combinations

  1. "Salut tout le monde!"

    • Hi everyone!
    • Perfect for casual group settings
  2. "Coucou!"

    • Hey there! (very informal)
    • Used mainly with close friends

Greeting with Kisses (La Bise)

  1. When to do it:

    • Meeting friends
    • Greeting family
    • Social gatherings
  2. When not to do it:

    • Professional meetings
    • First time meetings
    • With strangers

Regional Variations

  1. Number of kisses:

    • Paris: 2 kisses
    • South: 3 kisses
    • Some regions: 4 kisses
  2. Regional expressions:

    • "Adiu" (South)
    • "Kenavo" (Brittany)

Time-Specific Examples

Morning meeting:

  • "Bonjour à tous, je vous souhaite une excellente journée"
  • Good morning everyone, I wish you an excellent day

Afternoon departure:

  • "Je vous souhaite un bon après-midi"
  • I wish you a good afternoon

Evening gathering:

  • "Bonsoir à toute la famille"
  • Good evening to all the family

Cultural Guidelines

Do's:

  1. Always greet before starting conversation
  2. Match formality to situation
  3. Remember regional customs

Don'ts:

  1. Skip greetings
  2. Mix formal/informal styles
  3. Forget farewell greetings

French greetings are a social art - they set the tone for all interactions that follow.

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