French Greetings: Social Etiquette and Formality Guide
Updated on 2024-11-30
Formal Greetings
Bonjour Monsieur/Madame/Mademoiselle
- Used in professional settings
- Shows respect to strangers
- Example: "Bonjour Madame la Directrice" (Good morning, Director)
Common Formal Combinations
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"Bonjour Monsieur, comment allez-vous?"
- Good morning Sir, how are you?
- Used with older people or in business
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"Bonsoir Madame, je vous en prie"
- Good evening Ma'am, after you
- Perfect for formal evening events
Informal Greetings
Salut - Hi
- Used among friends and family
- Casual and friendly
- Example: "Salut, ça va?" (Hi, how's it going?)
Common Informal Combinations
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"Salut tout le monde!"
- Hi everyone!
- Perfect for casual group settings
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"Coucou!"
- Hey there! (very informal)
- Used mainly with close friends
Greeting with Kisses (La Bise)
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When to do it:
- Meeting friends
- Greeting family
- Social gatherings
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When not to do it:
- Professional meetings
- First time meetings
- With strangers
Regional Variations
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Number of kisses:
- Paris: 2 kisses
- South: 3 kisses
- Some regions: 4 kisses
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Regional expressions:
- "Adiu" (South)
- "Kenavo" (Brittany)
Time-Specific Examples
Morning meeting:
- "Bonjour à tous, je vous souhaite une excellente journée"
- Good morning everyone, I wish you an excellent day
Afternoon departure:
- "Je vous souhaite un bon après-midi"
- I wish you a good afternoon
Evening gathering:
- "Bonsoir à toute la famille"
- Good evening to all the family
Cultural Guidelines
Do's:
- Always greet before starting conversation
- Match formality to situation
- Remember regional customs
Don'ts:
- Skip greetings
- Mix formal/informal styles
- Forget farewell greetings
French greetings are a social art - they set the tone for all interactions that follow.