French Social Norms: Greetings and Personal Space

French Greeting Customs

Greetings in French culture follow specific patterns that differ from many other countries. Understanding these norms helps navigate social situations smoothly.

La Bise (Cheek Kissing)

1. "On fait la bise?" (Shall we do the greeting kiss?)

• Used to initiate the greeting ritual
• Common between friends and acquaintances

2. Regional Variations:

• Paris: typically two kisses
• South of France: often three kisses
• Some regions: up to four kisses

When to Use Different Greetings

1. Professional Settings:

• A handshake: with colleagues first meeting
• "Bonjour" with a slight nod: passing colleagues

2. Social Settings:

• La bise: friends and family
• "Salut": casual greeting with peers

Personal Space Rules

French personal space norms differ from American and Northern European customs.

Conversational Distance

1. Social conversations: arm's length
2. Professional settings: slightly further
3. Friend groups: closer proximity accepted

Public Behavior

1. "Pardon" when passing close to others

• Essential in crowded spaces
• Said softly but clearly

2. Metro and Bus Etiquette:

• Standing close is normal
• Avoiding eye contact is common

Key Cultural Tips

1. Always greet when:

• Entering shops
• Meeting groups
• Starting meetings

2. Never skip greetings with:

• Shop staff
• Neighbors
• Service providers

Social Timing

1. Meal times are sacred:

• Lunch: 12:00-2:00 PM
• Dinner: 7:30-9:30 PM

2. Social calls:

• No calls after 9:30 PM
• No visits without warning

French social norms prioritize politeness and formality. Following these customs shows respect and cultural awareness.