Ordering in French Restaurants: Essential Phrases and Etiquette
Updated on 2024-11-18
Initial Contact
Getting Attention
- "Une table pour deux, s'il vous plaît" (A table for two, please)
- Standard phrase to request seating
- Always add "s'il vous plaît" for politeness
- "Est-ce que je peux voir la carte?" (Can I see the menu?)
- Used when menu isn't provided
- Alternative: "La carte, s'il vous plaît"
Ordering Drinks
Common Requests
- "Je voudrais un café, s'il vous plaît" (I would like a coffee, please)
- "Je voudrais" is more polite than "Je veux"
- "Une carafe d'eau, s'il vous plaît" (A pitcher of tap water, please)
- Free tap water is a legal right in French restaurants
Wine Orders
- "Le vin du jour?" (The wine of the day?)
- Common way to ask about house wine
- "Une bouteille de vin rouge/blanc" (A bottle of red/white wine)
- Specify color when ordering wine
Ordering Food
Starters
- "Pour commencer, je prendrai..." (To start, I'll have...)
- Standard phrase to order appetizers
- "Quelles sont les entrées du jour?" (What are today's starters?)
- Ask about daily specials
Main Course
- "Comme plat principal..." (For the main course...)
- Introduces your main dish order
- "La viande, elle est comment?" (How is the meat prepared?)
- Ask about preparation methods
Specific Preferences
- "Bien cuit/à point/saignant" (Well done/medium/rare)
- For meat preparation preferences
- "Sans..." (Without...)
- Used for dietary restrictions or preferences Example: "Sans oignons" (Without onions)
During the Meal
Additional Requests
- "Je peux avoir..." (Could I have...)
- "...du pain?" (some bread?)
- "...du sel?" (some salt?)
- "...du poivre?" (some pepper?)
- "L'addition, s'il vous plaît" (The bill, please)
- Used when ready to pay
Useful Expressions
Appreciation
- "C'était délicieux" (It was delicious)
- Express satisfaction after meal
- "Mes compliments au chef" (My compliments to the chef)
- Formal way to express high satisfaction
Problems
- "Ce n'est pas ce que j'ai commandé" (This isn't what I ordered)
- Polite way to indicate a mistake
- "C'est froid" (It's cold)
- To indicate temperature issues
Cultural Notes
- Service Expectations
- French service is less rushed than American
- Waiters wait for clear signals from customers
- Tipping
- Service is included ("service compris")
- Additional tips (5-10%) for exceptional service
- Meal Times
- Lunch: 12:00-14:00
- Dinner: 19:30-22:00
- Many restaurants don't serve outside these hours
Essential Vocabulary
- Menu Terms
- La carte: menu
- Le menu: fixed price menu
- Le plat du jour: dish of the day
- L'addition: the bill
- Course Names
- Une entrée: starter
- Le plat principal: main course
- Le dessert: dessert
Remember: French dining is a cultural experience. Take your time, speak softly, and always use polite forms. The meal is meant to be enjoyed, not rushed.