When to use tu vs vous in French
Updated on 2024-08-12
Choosing between "tu" and "vous" in French can be tricky for English speakers. These pronouns both mean "you," but they're used in different situations.
Informal "Tu"
Use "tu" for:
- Friends and family
- Children
- Pets
- God (in prayers)
Example: "Tu veux aller au cinéma?" (Do you want to go to the movies?)
Formal "Vous"
Use "vous" for:
- Strangers
- Elders
- Superiors at work
- Groups (plural "you")
Example: "Voulez-vous un café?" (Would you like a coffee?)
Tips for Choosing
- When in doubt, start with "vous"
- Listen to how others address you
- It's okay to ask, "On peut se tutoyer?" (Can we use "tu"?)
Remember, using the wrong form isn't a grave error, but using the right one shows respect and cultural awareness.